A 40-day devotional for men

No More
What Ifs

Walk with God in the Second Half of Life, Go from Success to Significance, and Decide Today on Your Purpose, Family, and Business

Forty days alone with God. Every day brings the full Scripture passage, a true story with no sermon, and one decision you can check off before you turn out the light. No day runs past eight hundred words.

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Cover of No More What Ifs, a 40-day devotional for men, by Kike Perez

Numbers 14:34

The walk from Egypt to the Promised Land takes eleven days.
A whole generation took forty years.

One year for every day of fear. That’s the going rate, and it’s still being charged. The math hit home for me at thirty-three, in a hotel room in Tampa, on the worst night of my life. My first book came out of that night—not out of a seminar.

Read My Story

Who it’s for

If any of this sounds familiar, it’s for you

It isn’t a lack of faith. You go to church. You believe. Nine times out of ten, it’s fear in a necktie.

Buying it for your husband or your dad? It’s forty days, not 365, and no day runs past eight hundred words. He can finish this one.

What the 40 days look like

The same road Israel walked out of Egypt

Four chapters of ten days each—the same four stretches that generation walked, and the same four every one of us walks.

Days 1–10

Slavery

What got you where you are—and it isn’t a lack of faith.

Days 11–20

The Desert

Leaving isn’t arriving. Who are you when they take the title away?

Days 21–30

The Struggles

Deciding is hard. This is where you write the plan.

Days 31–40

The Promised Land

Getting in isn’t the finish line. This is where you deliver.

One day, up close

Day 4 · Fear, the Boss You Never Hired

Ten or fifteen minutes. Door shut, phone in another room. You, the passage, and a decision.

01

The passage

EXODUS 5:6–9 (NLT)

“Load them down with more work. Make them sweat!”

Printed in full on the page, every day. You never stop to look one up.

02

The story

My daughter stalled at level eight in gymnastics—not for lack of strength or hours. “It’s just that I’m scared.” Then my son told me how long a hard hit really lasts: “About fifteen seconds, Dad.”

A true story, man to man. No pulpit.

03

One decision

Write down how many seconds the hit you’ve been dodging for months will really last, then put the date you’ll take it on the calendar.

One line, in ink, before bed.

Start Day 1

Free tools

The tools I use with the men I coach

Every ten days of reading opens one of them. They’re free, right from your phone, and your answers stay on your device.

10

AFTER DAY 10 · WHERE DO I COME FROM?

Connect the Dots

Draw your story stage by stage, find the patterns that keep repeating, and name the fear that’s holding you back today.

Start My Timeline
20

AFTER DAY 20 · WHO AM I?

The Temperament Test

Forty quick choices to find out what tools you were born with, your strengths, and your blind spots. The hammer or the screwdriver?

Take the Test
30

AFTER DAY 30 · WHERE AM I GOING?

Your Life Plan

Your purpose turns into goals, measurable initiatives, and a calendar. Two or three hours a month, no more.

Build My Plan
41

AFTER DAY 40 · DAY 41

Let’s Talk, You and Me

Holding on to it is the hard part, and nobody does that alone. Thirty minutes on video, and the first one is on me.

See My Calendar

All Four Tools in One Place

Kike Perez

Who’s talking

I don’t hand out credentials.
I show you the bill I paid.

At twenty-four I was analyzing billion-dollar acquisitions for one of the largest cement companies in the world. I designed the future of enormous companies and never designed my own.

At thirty-three, in the same month, my wedding was called off, I lost my job, and the world went into a financial crisis. One night, in a hotel room in Tampa, I decided my life was over. What came after wasn’t a seminar. It was a calendar. Fifteen years of one hour a day turned a pack-a-day smoker into a Boston Marathon finisher.

I founded Nóvament, a strategy and culture firm for family-owned businesses. For more than a decade I’ve sat across the table from owners who are where I was—in better suits—in more than 1,400 projects. I host the Líderes Ocultos podcast, and my family and I are moving from Monterrey, Mexico, to Texas.

Read the Whole Story

If you’re in that hotel room tonight, put this down and call or text 988, the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline. It’s free, confidential, and open 24 hours a day. You don’t have to carry this alone.

What they’re saying

From men who read it first

“Kike’s brave and generous testimony, in a very simple and practical way, makes us reflect on what truly matters in life and what deserves our highest priority.”

Ricardo Saldívar

Former President & CEO, The Home Depot Mexico

“There’s no way not to get hooked on this book. [Kike’s] story is powerful, and it grabs you from the first page.”

Guillermo “Guille” Franco

Former player, Mexico National Team

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A what-if doesn’t lose to good intentions.
It loses to a decision, made today.

If something here hit home, the first step isn’t hiring anybody. It’s opening the book—or sitting down with me for thirty minutes, at no cost.

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